December 2004
Many churches have early evening "family services" on Christmas Eve, so that young children don't have to stay up for "Midnight Mass." That's a mistake, I think. Children who stay up past midnight are less likely to awaken before the dawn on Christmas Day.

Not that I minded the soft, "Merry Christmas, Aunt Linda," even at 6:30 a.m. The whole family congregated in the family room, where we opened our stockings. This was followed by the joyful ending of Jotham's Journey, with all five candles of the Advent wreath alight. Some have faulted the book for mixing a fictional tale with Bible truths, but—as with all good historical fiction—this story returns the shining wonder to events tarnished by distance and sanctimonious repetition.

After breakfast we exchanged gifts by the Christmas tree. Of course the boys eagerly sought out the gifts with their names on them, but it was encouraging to see them still more eager for others to open the gifts (many handmade) from them.

In the quiet of the afternoon, between games and books and Lego creations, we listened to a new CD, the American Boy Choir's Carol. Their rendition of Donald Fraser's This Christmastide (Jessye's Carol) transported me to a time in my life where I had caught a glimpse of heaven amid the sin-stained realities of this world. It was an experience of music, worship, and church body life that I now know was a rare and brief gift. The experience is gone, but the gift remains.
posted by sursumcorda on Saturday, December 25, 2004 at 02:15 PM
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'Tis the final day of Advent, and family is gathered around. Tonight we hear the penultimate story from Jotham's Journey, which we have been reading each night while the Advent candles are lit. Soon we will travel to church, bracketing our worship with fondue: cheese before and chocolate after. A white Christmas is unlikely, for the snow has been washed away by yesterday's rain. Perhaps we will have some Mannheim Steamroller Christmas music instead, which is almost as good.

The Season of Waiting is almost over. It is hard to observe Advent in our culture, where "Christmas" begins in October and ends about noon on December 25, just as the Christmas Season is beginning. But our small attempts have succeeded in shutting out some of the clamor, and drawing our eyes to greater wonders.

Billy, age five, is greatly excited. He hung his stocking from the mantel, and moved the large airplane cockpit control panel toy from in front of the fireplace, so that Santa will find no obstruction tonight. Then he solemnly declared to his cousin, "It wouldn't matter if Santa doesn't come, because the important thing about Christmas is Jesus' birth."

Merry Christmas, Everyone!
posted by sursumcorda on Friday, December 24, 2004 at 03:51 PM
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News reports are trumpeting findings which, if true, show that our society has fallen even lower than I had thought. A study of almost 1000 Texan women found that they ranked watching television high on the list of activities that give pleasure, while taking care of children was low—almost as low as doing housework.

Although the researchers claim that the results probably apply more broadly, I believe that the population they studied greatly affected the results: all of the women had jobs outside the home. Thus their childrearing activities had to be fit into their "spare time," not a situation conducive to choosing the effort of working with children over a mindless collapse in front of the TV.

I'm grateful that I know many people for whom making a home and raising a family are among the highest pleasures of life. They are the hope of the world and the strength of the future.
posted by sursumcorda on Friday, December 3, 2004 at 09:12 AM
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