After a rainy day, the weather cleared in time to encourage the trick-or-treaters to come out. We had more than usual and I was afraid we'd run out of Mounds bars, so a couple of times I gave out one each instead of two. I needn't have been so parsimonious—the flow dried up at 9:00 as if someone had thrown a switch, and I turned out the porch light at 9:30.
It was a more pleasant group of people this year, too. At least one, and usually all, in every group said "thank you"; only one, very young, asked, "Can I have more?"; most were young children escorted by parents; and the only group of older kids (middle school, I'd guess) had costumes and were polite. Very encouraging.Permalink | Read 2165 times | Comments (0)
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It's an old trick, I fell for it, and I'm glad.
Grocery stores love to put attractive displays in the checkout area, in hopes of luring shoppers to add one or two more items to their carts while waiting. Albertsons has large displays of fresh, hot French bread, particularly irresistable to those who come to the grocery store on their way home from work.
I rarely give in to the temptation, but today I saw something new: Nabisco's Honey Maid Gingerbread Graham Crackers. I recommend you all go to your nearest tempting grocery display and buy some! It's hard to imagine why anything this good can get away with being called "cracker" rather than "cookie," but hey, at least it's whole wheat. :)
Hmm, guess I'd better find something to work on in a part of the house closer to the front door. Trick-or-treaters are starting to arrive, and the frequent interruptions make writing difficult.Permalink | Read 2044 times | Comments (1)
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The Power of Full Engagement: Managing Energy, Not Time, Is the Key to High Performance and Personal Renewal, by Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz (Free Press, 2003)
I must send this book back to the library without a proper review, but it deserves a few comments. After hearing a friend's summary, I had to find out more. I'm afraid I was somewhat disappointed, but I think that was more because my friend's summary was so good, causing me to expect more than was there. I almost, though not quite, would have been as well off with just the summary. I also might have appreciated it more if I had not already read so many books by Stephen Covey, of which this book reminds me very much. I think Covey's books are well worthwhile, and this too, but there wasn't as much new as I had expected. (More)
I wasn't one of the ones she "tagged," and I generally think "memes" are generally inane, but Liz over at Smithical posted this one, and I like it, so I'm jumping on the bandwagon.
Five Good Things
Silence This blessed commodity is very hard to come by these days. I don't mean total lack of sound so much as freedom from mechanical, manmade sounds and loud sounds in any form. As I sit here in my office, it is "quiet": Porter is reading, there is no music, television show, nor telephone conversation to hear. And yet I am still assailed by noise at significant volume: the chug of a hard drive, the whirr of a fan, the whine of a monitor. If I sit on our back porch early enough, I can avoid the noise of pool pumps, air conditioners, and power saws, but the birds, bugs, frogs, and squirrels don't quite drown out the roar of the highway two and a half miles away. Waiting at the doctor's office, driving down the road, eating at a restaurant, getting one's hair cut, grocery shopping—whatever we do, we are bombarded with sound. And when was the last time your church allowed any amount of time at all for silent prayer and meditation during a worship service? At one of ours, we designed a Maundy Thursday service that included a full minute of silence; it seemed an eternity, but was very powerful. Without silence, we will lose our ability to think deep thoughts.
Hugs In our sex-obsessed culture, we have forgotten the critical importance of non-sexual physical affection. Without it, infants "fail to thrive"—they die. As we grow, we learn to endure that deprivation, but we die inside. Only young children give their affection freely; perhaps that's why they are so beloved.
Books Our connection to the Great Conversation, to the past, to the wide world, to worlds of fantasy. How could we live without books? Whether a dusty genealogy tome in the library, a delightful novel with a comfortable chair and a cup of tea, or a children's book and a grandchild in my lap, I love books!
Water Was there ever such a wonderful element? Cold water, the best drink ever for a thirsty throat; cool water to swim in on a hot day; water for washing away the grit and grime of life; no wonder God endowed this symbol with such rich spiritual significance.
Making Music Together Music, itself, is a Good Thing, but the miracle of coming together and making music for the joy of it is a Very Great, Powerful, Healing Thing. With our professional music groups, our concerts, and our CD's, we have access to music of a variety and quality no other era could imagine. But we have almost lost what it means to make our own music, and that is tragic.
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Porter had to get up early this morning for a 7:00 dentist appointment, but that didn't stop him from staying up late last night. Now his beloved Boston Red Sox have won the World Series twice in his lifetime, which until now few living Red Sox fans could say. He's been too busy to watch all the games, but he enjoyed a few, especially last night's.
Congratulations to the Red Sox, and to those of our New England relatives who are enjoying this victory! Condolences to S, the Yankee fan. (No, not that S -- the other S. I know the one S is a dedicated Red Sox fan!) I hope T&B are happy -- I've forgotten where their loyalties lie.Permalink | Read 3761 times | Comments (1)
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I've been waiting for The Good Shepherds to become available online ever since I read the print version in Christianity Today magazine. This positive, upbeat story resonates with me in so many ways, it well deserves a post.
[Insert the usual disclaimer here: This way of life is not for everyone; it not my intention to offend, nor to imply disrespect for other people's life situations, much less push anyone into a lifestyle that is far from mainstream—albeit that it would have been considered normal by most of our ancestors. But I can't help considering this a very cool life choice indeed.] (More)
Apologies to those of you who are waiting for the story of last weekend's adventures in Sarasota. That will come, but in the meantime it's been a while since I posted, and I just came upon the essay I wrote for a genealogy contest with the less-than-inspiring title of this post.
The circumstances were interesting, however. Because the sponsoring organization was Irish, I thought my story might be of interest to them. Maybe it was, but not enough to win. However, a blog owner can be her own publisher, and since they didn't want it, I'm sharing it here. :) (More)
It's been a while since I've posted anything in the RETHINK category, but I was inspired by this article on the differences in chilbirth between the United Kingdom and the United States. As much as I have come to appreciate midwives and the option of home birth, the point of this post is not to tout the British socialized health care system, which I know has significant problems. Nor do I wish to make the all-too-common mistake of assuming that an idea is better just because it's not American—or because it is European—an error which is just as dangerous as its opposite.
What strikes me as so vitally important, especially for Americans who, thanks to the size and historical self-sufficiency of our country, tend to have less contact with other cultures than most educated people, is the great benefit of listening to and exploring other people's views on topics that are so well-ingrained in our own lives we never question them. Ideas that are so much a part of us we imagine anyone who would think otherwise as uncultured, uncivilized, and ignorant: "They do such-and-such because they don't know any better. When they see our way they will know it is best." Most of us wouldn't actually say that, but it's a strong gut reaction. It's a good thing, then for all of us to encounter people who have equally deep-seated feelings that their ways, very different from ours, are superior. Whether we come away from the comparison with our minds changed, or more convinced than ever that we are right, we benefit from the encounter.
Not many people can learn this lesson by living in another culture, as Janet has. But the Internet can be a great eye-opener, and most of us probably have neighbors, co-workers, and church or school friends who would be happy to share a different cultural view. Not to mention that getting married, even to someone from one's own culture, can be a surprising introduction to the thought that ideas, habits, and customs we take for granted are not necessarily universal. :)
Far be it from me to champion the inane and dangerous idea that all cultures and customs are equally valuable. But I think most of us are much more likely to make the opposite error. I preach to myself most of all.I'm designing a playroom, and have been for years. I don't ever expect to see it, since (1) our children are grown, and (2) my design takes no account of cost. Nonetheless it's fun imagining what I'd do if I could, kind of like mentally spending lottery winnings (even though I never buy a ticket).
My playroom would be as much outdoors as it could be while still being usable in all seasons—lots of large windows or sliding glass doors with screens, perhaps, and an indoor/outdoor connection. The latter could be a door, but wouldn't a tunnel be fun? There would be a large art/craft section, and music (instruments for playing and a CD player for listening), and a brachiation ladder; well-stocked bookshelves and perhaps a sunken reading pit with comfortable cushions; a timeline all around the room and many maps and pictures on the walls.
The centerpiece of my imagined room has always been a structure of tunnels, ladders, ramps, and steps to encourage crawling, creeping, and climbing. I was quite excited to discover that such a thing really exists! However, even if Heather and Jon had room for it, and we could afford it, they wouldn't be getting it for Christmas. This one was custom-made for a Hong Kong preschool. Still, maybe the idea will catch on.
I had an interesting discussion yesterday with a man whose children graduated not long ago from our local Catholic schools system. He mentioned that his son found his college classes much easier than the ones he took in high school. This man believes that education in the United States in general, and textbooks in particular, have been significantly "dumbed down." As I've written before, I both agree and disagree with that statement. I find it generally true even though there are notable, marked exceptions.
I'm not one to be overly awed by statistics purporting to show how much better other countries' educational systems are. It wasn't that long ago that we were sending teams to Japan to discover why their children were learning so much more, yet at the same time the Japanese were sending teams here to learn why American students were so much more creative and innovative. And yet the signs are screaming like downtown Tokyo, from this tiny preschool to the large population of foreign students on U.S. college campuses, particularly in the hard sciences and engineering: Other countries take education, effort, and discipline far more seriously than we do.
So far we have survived on our creativity, our intellectual capital, and our tremendous natural and financial resources. We've also enjoyed political and economic systems that are conducive to innovation and growth. And we've been lucky.
Would I revamp our educational system to sponsor preschools such as this one all over the country? No. But I do wish Americans respected children, valued education, and encouraged self-discipline much more than we do.
And I'm going to keep my eyes open for play structures like that one.
We watched Bridge to Terebithia yesterday, and I've been struggling with what to say about it ever since. As usual, Porter knew exactly what he liked and didn't like, and had no trouble expressing himself on the issues. Often I can, too; in fact, I did so easily with the other movie we watched this weekend, the Oscar-winning The Apartment. (In brief, it started off slowly and the story was unpleasant, but Shirley MacLaine's acting was amazing and powerful.)
I should have known Bridge to Terebithia would be harder to critique, because Porter's commentary—during and immediately after—which I usually find informative and interesting, was more annoying than not. That happens when I have been very much drawn into a movie, and anything that calls me back prematurely is jarring, rather like being jerked out of a deep meditation by the telephone. Whenever I am thus entranced by a movie, I know rational analysis will be difficult. (More)Organizing for Your Brain Type by Lanna Nakone (St. Martin's Press, 2005)
Heather reviewed this book, and generated quite a discussion, some of which was actually related to the topic. I started adding my reflections as i read it, but have decided it's best not to clutter up her post anymore and have started a new post here. Below are a few of my reactions copied from her post; I'll add more in the comments to this post as I continue through the book. (More)Al Gore has won the Nobel Peace Prize. While I don't think well enough of the committee that makes these decisions to be impressed, many others are now suggesting he run for president. I'll admit I do find him in many ways more attractive than the current Democratic candidates, but I don't think he should join the fray.
For his own sake. (More)How many times do I have to be taught that technology, while useful, even delightful at times, is not to be depended on? I wonder if electronic equipment works better in Switzerland, where trains and trams are so dependable that a three-minute deviation from schedule is a notable occurrence?
Once again, I picked up my PDA to find it had lost everything. This is the third time that has happened in about a year an a half, and I think it's related to alarms going off repeatedly when I'm not aware of them. I'd love to shut off the alarms on the handheld device, but I can't do that without removing them from the desktop, which is where I really need them. But this time surprised me, because last I knew there was still plenty of life in the batteries.
Oh, well—I had a backup and only lost a couple of pieces of data. It would be helpful if I knew which data I'd lost, but I'll manage. At least this time I was home and could restore the data quickly—the first time I was on vacation and could do nothing till my return. That's when I learned to keep key information on paper when I travel!
Our nifty electronic devices are still too useful for me to give them up altogether, but it's good to be reminded now and then of the importance of backups and of Plans B. Of more concern is our similar dependence on fallible sources of heat, light, water, food, transportation, and other basic necessities, but that's another issue and much harder to resolve.I don't believe I was aware of the launch of the first Sputnik 50 years ago. I do remember going outside with my father two and a half years later to watch Echo 1 traverse the sky. That marked the first of many excursions with him to look at phenomena in the sky: satellites, lunar and solar eclipses, comets.
When Sputnik aroused consternation in the United States and set off furious attempts at educational reform, I was a month into my kindergarten year, so I can't speak accurately about consequent changes in our public schools. There are some comparisions I can do, however, looking at the three generations I know. (More)Heather recently reviewed a book called Organizing for Your Brain Type. According to this article, it might well have been called Organizing for Your Brain. It seems that "consciencious" people—orderly, dependable, hard-working, goal-oriented, self-disciplined, organized folks—are at significanly less risk of developing Alzheimer's and other forms of dementia as they age.
Autopsies revealed that these people did, in fact, have the kind of brain damage associated with Alzheimer's. What made the difference, apparently, was their ability to cope despite the damage.
So there you have it. Get organized, keep your promises, do good work. It's not only good for your soul, it's good for your brain.In old age, conscientiousness seems to have to do a lot with the risk of dementia. It’s not that it directly affects the underlying pathology. It seems to affect your ability to tolerate the pathology and maintain normal cognitive function.