The Duggar Family is just about the only reason I might wish, a little bit, that we had cable television. Not really; Netflix has spoiled me for watching anything I can't control. But Netflix has also failed me, not offering any but the first two seasons of their show. As a result, I'm 'way behind on their story, other than the little snippets I can see on Hulu. So I can't write the (long) post I want to. Instead, I'll summarize everything I'd hoped to say this way:
- There are many things I like about their lives and the way they are raising their children.
- There are many things I don't like about their lives and the way they are raising their children.
- I don't understand the extreme reactions the family has provoked:
- Not those who treat them like rock stars, standing worshipfully in line for hours just to see them at a book signing.
- Even less those who treat them as if they were evil incarnate, responding with vicious, hateful, ignorant comments.
- No one can ever adequately judge a family while it is still a work "in process." But I will note three things:
- They have been under an intense media spotlight for years; major politicians get less scrutiny. They've been interviewed, filmed, followed, and written about by journalists from all over the world. If they were hiding some dirty little secret, it would be known by now.
- The children (ranging in age from one to 23) are clearly well-behaved, pleasant, active, helpful, and happy.
- The parents are incredibly gracious in their responses to, and understanding of, those who question or misunderstand them.
I say, more power to them, and congratulations on expecting #20! Netflix, are you listening?
Here's a video from the Today Show that considers why the Duggar Family might elicit such strong reactions.
I should mention that the best part of the video is the very reasonable responses by the experts interviewed, including a comment or two that will please the free-range kids crowd.
Excerpt: Tired of waiting for Netflix to offer anything beyond the second season of the Duggar family's TV show (they're now on Season Six), I discovered the Duggar Family blog, which despite the name is a fan blog, not run by any of the Duggars themselves...
Weblog: Lift Up Your Hearts!
Date: March 8, 2012, 9:55 pm